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Vancouver

By Mr. Unknown

Lights are seen from afar

Canada’s third-largest city

Tall buildings loom

Pollution is a pity

Vancouver the city

Quite different from the island

Apartments replace trees

Expensive to live

Outer Vancouver includes

Coquitlam, Richmond and Surrey

Burnaby, White Rock, Delta

New Westminster, Maple Ridge and Langley

Yaletown, Granville Island

North Vancouver and Gastown

Each contributing to the name

Of Vancouver who was crowned

The man who “discovered” this land

These days we all frown

Downtown feels dark

Sunlight blocked by towers

Stores, offices and condos

Traffic slows by the hour

Ferries bring us here

To the big metro place

Swartz Bay to Tsawassen

Duke Point to Horseshoe Bay

Vancouver is a fun visit

For a day or two

But soon you may find

This escape is too much for me or you

Come see its landmarks

Come see its city views

Come Island people to Vancouver

Modern and new

Press Release – Victoria Cannabis Buyers Club

For Immediate Release

Friday, September 29, 2023

Victoria B.C.: A Lifetime Achievement Award is being presented to Victoria cannabis pioneer Ted Smith at the Grow Up Conference, held at the Victoria Conference Center on Sunday October 1, 2023.  With over 28 years working in the cannabis field, Ted has been an instrumental force in the cannabis scene long before it became a multibillion dollar industry.  The Grow Up Conference features leading experts in cannabis genetics, horticulture and law, with dozens of vendors and high-quality speaker panels. 

Ted is humbled to receive this award from a legal industry where he has long existed on the fringes. “It is a distinct honour to be recognized by the cannabis industry for my work advocating for patients and medical cannabis. For a long time I thought the legal industry didn’t care about my work, it makes me so thankful to see my advocacy work has left a lasting impression.”

The Grow Up Industry Awards Gala is a national annual event honouring cannabis professionals and companies and recognizing excellence and innovation in the cannabis industry. 

Green Wizardries with Maxine Rogers

Green Wizardries, The Harvest Now and the Harvest to Come   by Maxine Rogers

This year, we are having a very good harvest.  The tomato crop has been outstanding for all the gardeners I have talked to.  We are still harvesting tomatoes from our polytunnels.  I spent a large part of today making a batch of catsup.  One of my sisters insists I shouldn’t call it catsup because it is so very good and nothing like the commercial product.  However, I did use the tomato catsup recipe from The Joy of Cooking.  Like everything home made, it takes some time to cook and process it in a water-bath canner but it is vastly better than anything you can buy.

I also made a pint of elderberry syrup from our first crop of elderberries.  I think most gardeners on Hornby and Denman would benefit from growing some elderberry shrubs.  I bought ours three years ago and planted them in the garden.  The first year, we didn’t get many berries and the second year the same but as the bushes were two years old, I was able to prune them close to the ground and this year, they shot up aggressively and set huge bunches of berries.  

The flowers of the elder can be made into a very good sparkling wine.  They are medicinal and can be helpful in many preparations to reduce fever.  The flowers are also much valued by the pollinators and they smell sweet.  The blooms used to be picked and soaked in water overnight and used to wash the hands and face as a beauty treatment.  

The berries were hugely popular with the birds and we produced a stunning crop of white-crowned sparrows on the berries we shared with them.  We even had one pair of white crowns nest in one of our elder bushes.  I did manage to secure some berries for us.  

I suppose these berries could be grown in a berry house to ensure you get all the berries but I am not that organized and the birds are very important to delight us and to keep the ecological balance of the garden.  White-crowned sparrows eat the seeds of weeds and grasses as well as a lot of insects and fruit, particularly elderberries and blackberries.  

Elderberries used to be made into jams, pies and wine.  They seem to have fallen out of favour but should make a comeback as they are so easy to propagate and produce a good crop of nutritious berries.    I grow mine to make a syrup from the berries that is a traditional remedy for colds and the flu.  

Before I grew my own, I bought dried elderberries from Harmonic Arts, a herb company in Cumberland.  They sourced their berries from Poland and Croatia and other foreign parts so it is much better to grow our own here.  The syrup made from fresh berries, ginger, cloves and honey is much more tasty than the syrup made from dried berries but both work well to help people get over colds.  

This January, I will prune my elder shrubs close to the ground and take a bunch of cuttings to give to friends and the Garden Club.  If you want to have some elder cuttings, please call me at 335-1088 to reserve some.  The little cuttings can be pushed into the ground where you want them to grow but they will not do well if they have to compete with grasses and weeds.  I prepare a planting hole by mixing in a couple of spades worth of compost and then I cover the area with maple leaves.  I stick the cutting directly into the soil and leave it.  They make great wildlife bushes even if you are not interested in harvesting the berries for your own use.  

Another crop that did well this year was plums.  A friend gave me a couple of flats of plums and they were so sweet and good I could not walk past them without eating one.  I made them into plum sauce with our own onions, garlic and hot peppers.  This sauce will go really well with chicken and rabbit dishes.  

The harvest to come is much on our minds too.  Today, my husband spent most of the day hauling compost out to the garden to mulch a huge bed for garlic.  Now is a good time to plant garlic.  I will go out and place the cloves of garlic on the surface of the beds.  This way, I can make sure my rows are straight and that I have left large enough paths between the beds.  Once sure of all that, I plant the garlic under the mulch.  To grow the best garlic, you have to lime the soil and give the garlic a lot of nutritious compost.  They love seaweed.  

It is also time to trim excess runners on the strawberry plants.  I will only leave one runner per plant but if you need a lot of new plants, you can leave two or even three runners.  Strawberries only produce well for three years so keep an eye on the age of your plants and if in doubt, lift the plants and throw away any plants that have black, straggly roots.  They are way too old.

Letter to the Editor – Helen Grond

Letter to the Editor

Helen Grond

“Never assume malice when incompetence will suffice as an explanation” -Hanlon’s Razor

“Sufficiently advanced incompetence is indistinguishable from malice” -Fred Clark’s Law

It has been shown that if government officials have been caught side stepping their own

legislated procedures, protocols and laws, the public is willing to forgive them if they promptly

take responsibility and appropriate action to correct the situation. Unfortunately, they typically

do the opposite. Governments normally double down on their mistakes, attempt to cover

them up or lay the blame on their chosen fall guy. This is how they lose public confidence.

This is exactly what happened in parliament on September 22 nd when the Trudeau government,

somehow, unbelievably invited a former Nazi SS veteran to be honoured by parliament. It’s

impossible to imagine how a world leader could make such a blunder. Trudeau refuses to take

personal responsibility and the reputation of our country (especially Trudeau) has been trashed

worldwide. Canadians of every stripe are unified in their shared horror. Right on cue, Trudeau

named speaker of the house, Anthony Rota as the fall guy to take the hit for his colossal failure.

In case you thought that government malfeasance was restricted to the Trudeau

administration, look no further than our local government – the Islands Trust. Concerned

residents are shocked at the behavior of Trust planners with respect to an ongoing debacle

regarding a proposed cell tower application by Rogers over the last 16 months. At every turn,

the Trust has avoided following due process. Those actions have potentially compromised our

Trustees and cast serious doubt on the fairness of our local elections held in 2022. The Trust

has been exposed providing advantages to the corporate interests of Rogers over the rights of

local residents. This has been substantiated by a recent Freedom of Information Act (FOIA)

release. A lawyer retained by concerned Hornby residents doesn’t hold back when she says the

whole thing stinks to high heaven.

If only the Trust would take responsibility for their actions! Instead, the seeds of a cover up

have already been planted with hints that a formerly employed junior planner may be poised to

take the hit. The Trust must take mature, decisive and corrective measures to avoid disgrace or

worse. Let’s hope they step up and do the right thing because the alternative means we do not

have a functional democracy!

Timeline of important dates in the Rogers application process

June 10, 2022 – Brian Gregg (Rogers’ agent) opens communications with Islands Trust.

August 17, 2022 – Rogers makes a formal application to install a tower on Hornby Island and the

Trustees are not informed.

September 9, 2022 – Local Trust Committee passes model strategy for cell tower placement on

Hornby Island.

October 15, 2022 – Trust elections take place with the community being kept in the dark during

the campaign about the August 17 th , tower application.

November 21, 2022 – The community and the Trustees first learn of the Rogers’ application in

local papers and the consultation process is advanced quickly through the holiday season.

January 13, 2023 – Rogers closes community consultation without carrying out a legally

required, in person public meeting on Hornby. The Trust seems to accept this and doesn’t press

for the required public meeting as of October 3 rd , 2023.

September 8, 2023 – A staff planner at an LTC meeting claims that the Trust planners were

unaware that the adoption of the more rigorous Model Strategy had occurred in a September

9, 2022 LTC meeting. The planning staff had full control over all meeting agendas, motions,

briefings and had themselves developed the model strategy.

Flowers for Mao – Jane Masutani

Flowers for Mao

I have taken this title from a Leonard Cohen poetry collection called “Flowers for Hitler” that I’ve had in my possession since 1970! I haven’t thought about Mao for many years. I have a little green hat with a red star on it that I picked up in Chinatown many years ago as a curiosity, but it goes without saying, I have never worn it except as a joke to show to friends. But I’ve always thought of Mao with fondness and admiration for having kicked the Western powers out of the country and regaining China’s sovereignty after a 100 years of humiliation under the Western yoke.

I watched a 25 minute BBC documentary last night on the life of Mao, apparently the best bio. doc. on him on the net, and I came away feeling enlightened but rather depressed about his legacy and what he had done for China.  The announcer spoke with just the right tone. He didn’t sound like he hated Mao or was hellbent on character assassination, or was angry. He was the BBC voice of reason. He was just giving us the facts. But something felt off, and I couldn’t put my finger on it.

I shared the video with my husband because he always has a more clear-eyed view on these things than I seem to. He remembers people’s names instantly as well, which is another cause for me looking up to him. He is basically the oracle. But before I share what he had to say about the documentary, let me tell you what I knew about Mao and the situation in China from the 1930s onward before watching this documentary. 

Mao was handsome and slim for only a brief time in his youth, like Churchill. He had four wives, the last one being an entertainer with the stage name Blue Apple. He could ride a horse. He swam across the Yangtze River in his early 70s to prove his virility (Although the fact he was with Blue Apple should have been enough!) He went on the “long march” to consolidate power. When he attained power in 1949 some of his policies didn’t work as planned. And that’s an understatement. He represented and fought for rural China, the peasants. He developed a culture of hero worship in the country. He gave China back its sovereignty.

Chiang Kai Shek was a slim, handsome man all his life. He could ride a horse. He married one of the wealthy Shanghai Soong sisters, renowned in the 1920s for their beauty. He had a nickname in the 1930s in Washington, “cash my cheque”. The United States were backing him, he was their man in China, and apparently always asking for more money. His army was 4 times the size of the Communist, Mao’s army, due to all that moola. And he still lost. He represented, apart from the hidden hand of the US, the Chinese moneyed class, landlords and business people in the cities. The desperately poor farmers in the countryside, 80 percent of the population, gave assistance to Mao’s communist troops in the form of a bed and food during the long march. They knew which side their bread was buttered on so they didn’t offer aid to Chiang KaiShek’s soldiers. When Chiang lost the long fight in 1949 he and his followers took much of the money and treasures of the country to Taiwan with them. 

When the dust of victory settled, Mao, Jou EnLai and other officials grappled with the language issue. Should they adopt the Roman alphabet? They had a 10 percent literacy rate. The characters were too difficult to learn. They decided to simplify them, to keep their connection with the past. But they simplified them so much that their ancient classics can only be read, ironically, by the Japanese, who have retained the original characters in their writing system. But, everyone can read and write in today’s China.

Another issue was what to do with the surviving, 46 year old, last Ching dynasty emperor, Pu Yi. I have a soft spot for this weedy little stereotype of a Chinese man with round black glasses and slightly buck teeth, and so did Mao and the people around him. They didn’t want him dead, they wanted him as a shining example of reform. He was put in a re-education camp for several years where he was bullied when it became known who he was and it became obvious that he was almost incapable of getting dressed by himself or carrying or serving food without spilling it, not having done these things before. He ended up as a park gardener in Beijing. They even arranged a partner for him. They said, after all, an emperor needs a consort. They chose somebody’s unmarried middle-aged sister, an office worker, and he lived out his remaining years quite happily  with her. But, what a roller-coaster ride of a life the poor man had! He spent his life yearning for the medieval palace splendor of his youth. His one true home. He told his jailers about his life in the palace, how from the age of 13 the eunuchs had brought a succession of palace maids to his room at night. When he found himself married off at 17 he left his bride sitting on the edge of the bed in her red dress and veil. She was a complete stranger, he said, the palace maids were his friends. But, he grew fond of his wife and in old age one of his happiest memories was riding around the streets of Beijing on a bicycle incognito with his beautiful bride on the back. But, enough about poor Pu Yi. 

Perhaps Mao was good at being a revolutionary but once he got into power he didn’t actually know how to pull off his idea of modernizing the country, bringing it into the modern world. His ideas often seemed to bring disaster and the people closest to him were perhaps too afraid to offer their ideas. Also, a revolution is a violent thing. During the French Revolution there were aristocratic heads being chopped off to a large clapping, appreciative audience for three years straight! That’s a lot of dehumanizing violence. You say you want a revolution…

Seems like Deng Hsiao Ping, the man who came after him, was the one to open up China to the modern world. The documentary ends by saying that China is communist in name only now. It may not be strictly communist in rule, but the common people do have their opinions heard on the local level and so the government is responsive to the will of the people. And there is the traditional communist long-term planning, with 5 year plans. Corporations do not run the country.

In the end, we’re left with the terrible truth of there being a ton of human suffering during a large part of Mao’s rule. Was it all worth it to break free from Western powers? What would China be like now if “cash my cheque” would have won? The Philippines?  Ultimately it doesn’t seem morally right (does it?) to have Caucasians running the entire world. Asia has a right to be Sovereign, as does Africa, The Middle East and everywhere else. The US encompasses 4.5 percent of the world’s population.

The documentary does say, and the modern psychoanalyzing was a nice touch and most likely true, we’re all human after all, that Mao was brutalized and traumatized by the intensity of the long-term violence thrown at him and his men by the West in their herculean efforts to keep control of China. He’d lost his wife and four year old son to the violence. That he was a different man at the end of it. 

By 1953 he had so built up the Chinese army that they were able to beat back American troops in Korea and the US had to draw a line across the country, freeze the fighting, and accept defeat. 

It was so many years ago now that I bought the Mao hat. I also bought “China Pictorial” on visits to Chinatown. It featured lovely images of pretty girls in the countryside smiling with rosy cheeks, picking cabbages . Now, even young people in China  laugh at those old propaganda magazines and Mao’s little red book, the faded slogans painted on old barns. Mao’s chubby face benevolently gazing out onto ghost town streets. 

The youth of China have left Mao behind. They’re interested in BTS and Korean dramas, like the rest of us.  Matsuki’s assessment of the documentary Is that ultimately, there should be credit where credit is due. The East is red, and that’s only because of Mao.

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Shucking Oysters: Thank You Weekend

Shucking Oysters: Thank You Weekend

By Alex Allen

Thanksgiving. Most of us celebrate this day with family and friends. My claim to fame is that my mother, for some reason or another, did not like turkey. Never cooked a turkey in her life. Maybe it’s because turkeys are the size of small children. In school, I was the only kid who was eating chicken sandwiches after Thanksgiving. I felt odd, yet the family tradition continues. 

Following Truth and Reconciliation Day last weekend, I wondered about how First Nations feel today about Thanksgiving and all its trimmings. It’s no surprise, that the holiday is one with deep significance in history and culture — and controversy. While Canada was the first country in North America to celebrate Thanksgiving, the Indigenous Peoples of Canada have been holding annual fall harvest celebrations way before the arrival of European settlers. 

Brian Rice, an assistant professor in the department of religion at the University of Winnipeg and a member of the Mohawk nation, said “All of our ceremonies, all of the things that we do, have to do with giving thanks. So it’s part of a continuum of something that’s been practised for thousands of years.” 

It’s common for young Indigenous people to feel some discomfort toward Thanksgiving, said Jacqueline Romanow, a Métis from the Red River Settlement area and chair of the Indigenous studies department at the University of Winnipeg. “It supports the myth that this land was discovered. It creates this idea that the Indigenous people here just simply handed over everything to the new sort of arrivals, that there was no conflict, that it was a very peaceful and happy encounter — which, in fact, is the exact opposite of what happened,” she said.

It is a dark history indeed, about how the Indigenous people on the East coast saved those early colonialists from starvation, and then the following year, those same colonialists would murder the Indigenous people and take their land. It’s no wonder the Indigenous feel “ambivalent” towards the holiday.

“Every day that we wake up, every day that we have another opportunity to walk on this beautiful gift, which is our mother the Earth, to experience life, we give thanks. And that is our world view,” Indigenous educator, Biindigegizhig Deleary said. “So for Canadians and for all people, I think we really have to get to a place in the world where we appreciate what we have, and by appreciating what we have, we begin to take care of it better.” 

Theresa Sims, elder and educator at the Ska:na Family Learning Centre, added “We always celebrated the harvest and what creation has provided for us. Mother Nature has provided everything that we need, but we have to learn how to respect it and care for it, and also keep it for the next seven generations.”

  

Sharing went beyond food on the table, it extended to knowledge and technique. Sharing in the Indigenous community is a virtue. As Jordan Wheeler, a Cree from the George Gordon First Nation said, “The sign of wealth is not how much you have but how much you give away. On paper we should be quadrillionaires.” 

“In my culture we give thanks every day. We thank Creator for allowing us to be on this Earth for another day. If we pick berries or hunt an animal we offer tobacco and give thanks for their sacrifice … Plants and animals aren’t commodities, they’re family.” Wheeler adds, “But to roll all those daily thanks into one day of the year and think you have it covered? Too easy and convenient — and people call ‘Indians’ lazy!” 

And then I read in the news, that food insecurity is an “urgent public health crisis” for Indigenous kids. As families across Canada struggle with the increasing cost of groceries, a new study says First Nations, Métis and Inuit children and youth have been disproportionately affected by food insecurity for years. Family physician Dr. Rebekah Eatmon sees parents in tears, frustrated that they can’t provide enough healthy food for their children. “I’ve never met an Indigenous parent that doesn’t want to do the best for their kids,” said Eatmon, who works at an Indigenous clinic in Vancouver and in two remote First Nations in BC. 

Many Indigenous children have obesity, but are nutrient-starved, because their diets consist largely of more affordable carbohydrate or fat-heavy food, the study said. “Families know what the best things are for their kids.” Eatmon said. “But the reality is the blueberries will spoil in a couple days and the Eggos will stay for months inside their freezer.”

The long-lasting effects of colonization are driving factors behind much of the food insecurity Indigenous people face, because of the disruption of their sources of healthy food, such as traditional hunting, fishing and gathering. “Over thousands of years, Indigenous populations have adapted to a diet suitable to their environment,” the study said. That diet included animals and plants harvested locally. Adding to that, the cultural sharing practices involving potlucks and ceremonies were banned and the loss of inter-generational knowledge of traditional foods soon followed.

There is hope. Programs are re-establishing traditional foods within Indigenous communities to fight food insecurity. Other examples include community greenhouses and community freezers.

Meanwhile, Romanow said Thanksgiving in Canada should also be a time of recognizing First Nations. “I think that if the Canadian government is really sincere about changing the relationship with Indigenous Canadians, that this would be a start, that it isn’t just Thanksgiving … [it’s about] thanking Indigenous people and recognizing them, quite frankly, as one of the three founding nations of this country.”

With files from CBC News and Black Media Press.

Bad Lunches & Dumb Luck

CS# 05943451

March 26th, 2007 

Bad Lunches & Dumb Luck

And now for my latest complaint lodged about our laughable lunches:

To whom it may concern, 

     As previously, I write regarding Crew #2’s lunches. Personally I am surprised that you even have complaint forms given this is jail. Until now I was of the impression that forms submitted of such nature would immediately get filed in the garbage. To see that our lunches have indeed altered since my last complaint confirms otherwise. The problem is that they didn’t improve, they got worse. I think I’m beginning to see how things work around here now. So allow me to try a new tack. 

     I asked for a ‘Commendation Form,’ but apparently you find little reason to make available such forms. Anyways, I just wanted to say that the slice of meat and processed cheese, nestled between two dry slices of bread was delicious! With no butter to cook them with it’s a good thing such savoury fare gets my salivary glands pumping. Were it not for the anticipation of such delectable morsels, I might be at risk of choking to death on such dryness. Thank you and keep up the good work!

                                                                                    CS# 05943451

     Our crew lunch woes aside, I must now pause for a genuine moment of recognition for how fortunate I feel to be me. It’s nothing much really. Not meant to be self-congratulatory or anything. It’s just that I’m all too often hearing guys in here talk of how little they weighed prior to landing in the clink. The result of crack addictions. Skin and bones. Over the course of their imprisonment, despite the bland and calibrated diet, they have near magically ballooned to their more normal weight. Certainly a good many of them utilize the weight room up in the gym to aid in their physical rehabilitation. I suspect that the obsessive compulsion to lift weights is a convenient substitute for their past obsessive compulsion for drugs. Either way, I’m just feeling blessed that I never wandered down such a path. My usual 145 pound mass I suspect is much the same given my ever steady metabolism. I don’t know who or what is reason for my station. God, fate, genes, choices, dumb luck? But this mustn’t pass my notice. I’m glad to be me! Especially when these very same guys proclaim how they ‘can’t wait to get back on the pipe’ as their release draws near.

Caitlin Johnstone – Notes from the edge of the narrative matrix

Nobody Who Fought Against Russia Could Possibly Be Bad!

CAITLIN JOHNSTONE
SEP 26

Just because Ukraine has Nazi paramilitaries and just because it’s impossible to take photos of Ukrainian soldiers without capturing Nazi insignia and just because Ukrainian Nazis get applauded in parliament doesn’t mean we’re on the side of the Nazis, you crazy Russian shill.

https://twitter.com/caitoz/status/1706116389029969957

Western minds have become so warped by cold war hysteria these last few years that it never occurred to a single person in an entire giant room full of professional politicians that someone who fought against Russia during World War II might be a bad guy. Having fought against Russia at any point in history is just reflexively assumed to have put you on the right side.

Remember when US liberals were conditioned to hate Russia by a completely false narrative which was fed to the media by the western intelligence cartel, while the west was engaging in actions that same intelligence cartel knew would provoke a war with Russia? Crazy coincidence.

If you think the US government has been doing evil things in Ukraine, wait til the information becomes declassified in a few decades about the real nasty shit they were up to behind the veil of government secrecy. 

The media and online psyops alone will be jaw dropping.

I love how it’s no longer seriously disputed that NATO expansion provoked this war and even the head of NATO now admits it, so now empire apologists’ only argument is claiming that Russia simply shouldn’t have viewed NATO expansion as a threat. As though that’s an answer.

They work so hard on internet control for the same reason they’ve worked so hard on media control: to control the public. The easiest way to control people is to control how they think, and the easiest way to control how they think is to control what information they consume.

When Russia and China draw a “red line”, it’s about a threat to their national security on their own borders. When the US draws a “red line”, it’s about the internal affairs of another country on the other side of the world.

https://twitter.com/RnaudBertrand/status/1706465816181637555

I guess if you spend generations training a population to believe that it’s perfectly fine and normal for your government to work to topple communist governments around the world solely because they are communist, a lot of them will be on board when it’s time to go after China.

The US empire is a global version of Israel. One’s a nation that can only exist by endless war, the other’s a globe-spanning power structure of allies, assets, military bases, and economic/monetary norms that can only exist by endless war.

The fastest way to get me to completely lose interest in your analysis is to start pouring your energy into divisive culture war issues. In a world that’s hurtling toward nuclear annihilation and environmental collapse there’s just no reason to be running around shitting on trans people and shrieking about pronouns or whatever. Even if you’re generally right about other important issues, the fact that you think that’s a wise expenditure of your political energy tells me you don’t truly understand the gravity of those other issues and only have a very limited perspective.

Leftists who oppose past wars but never the present one are the absolute worst. Their posture on past wars allows them enough anti-imperialist cred to maintain influence over leftist circles, while their position on what’s happening here and now (the only thing that actually matters) is indistinguishable from John Bolton or Lindsey Graham.

The most significant feature of leftists as a group is the same as the most significant feature of any other group: they’re mostly confused, dysfunctional, and dominated by ego. That’s just where the human species is at right now. Socialism has failed to manifest in the western world for a whole host of reasons, but a big one is just that humans are too easily distracted, divided, manipulated and led astray to create a healthy world at this particular point in spacetime. We’re not going to be able to organize effectively and start moving toward health until we wake up from the dysfunctional relationship with thought that allows manipulators to continually neuter and nullify our political energy.

 

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But What About Me?(Part 2)

      But What about Me?    (Part 2)                     Sally Campbell

When I took my initial training as a mediator in 1986, I had no idea how culture-blind I was.

I swam obliviously in the waters of my post-sixties women’s lib, white-privileged, western individualistic, Eurocentric, middle class, “But what about me?” universe. Born and raised in Vancouver, I knew nothing of the indigenous cultures all around me. I had so much to learn. I was, as they say, overdeveloped on the outside and underdeveloped on the inside.

Thankfully, mediation is a great and humbling teacher. So is working with indigenous communities and faith communities like Ismaili Muslim. So is a gifted T’ai Chi Ch’uan teacher like the late Doreen Hynd. So is therapy. And the writers, the poets, voices of the heart and soul – on loss, grief, inequality, racism. I especially enjoy reading and learning from those with different backgrounds from my own. Conflict is a terrific lens because it’s a hard human experience, a universal one, and one of life’s most powerful teachers. As tough as it is, we need to ask what it is teaching us right now. And take the learning!

At a very deep level, our values drive how we respond in conflict situations. Yet they are something we rarely examine or even question. Interestingly, people world-wide share most of the same values, but they play out in distinctly differing ways.

What seems logical, sensible, important and reasonable to a person in one culture may seem irrational and unimportant to one of another culture. Stella Ting-Toomey* has written a great deal about culture. She says that when people talk about other cultures, they tend to describe the differences and not the similarities. And that differences between cultures are often seen as threatening, so they’re described in negative terms. And yet it is very valuable to understand the differences, to look into them, and see where these judgments lie, particularly our own. For instance, the more ego-centred life style of individualists is considered utterly selfish and immature by more collectivist orientations, while the group allegiance valued in collectivist cultures is considered by individualists to be sheep-like adherence, blind conformity to the dictates of the group.

 Freedom – a highly valued and vaunted aspect of western culture, is a not a value you hear expressed by most of the world’s population. (No one likes the idea of incarceration. Ironically, the freedom-loving US has the highest rate of incarceration in the world.) Maintaining harmony and belonging are much more highly valued in a collectivist worldview. My freedom is only as important as the freedom of my entire group in collectivist perspective. 

As well, with collectivism, separate interests are inextricably tied to the interests of the group. I experienced this orientation when working in the Northwest Territories, as a facilitator with the 7 indigenous nations of that region. It was a 3 day gathering exploring impacts and benefits of a proposed gas pipeline. When asking representatives of their respective nations to identify their own specific interests (what mattered to them), they never once separated out their interests as individuals from those of their group; the idea itself was foreign to them. I remember thinking how utterly different a response this was from that of folks at a negotiating table of non-indigenous people. They would speak of the interests of those they represented and also from their own perspective, without hesitation. Sometimes the latter would come first. 

These ideas are intended not to stereotype people but rather to provide a general framework for understanding deeply-rooted ways of being. 

Here’s a few more ways these cultural value frameworks play out:

1.  Individualism emphasizes personal goals; collectivism, in-group goals.

2.  Individualism expects horizontal relational primacy (loyalty to spouse or partner); collective worldviews expect vertical relational primacy (obedience and respect for elders, and for those in authority).

3. Individualism anticipates competition in conflict; collectivism expects avoidance of conflict.

4. Individualism values free & frank disclosure and expects personal face-saving; collectivism teaches mutual and other face-saving.

5. Individualism has a resolution focus (“get the job done”); collectivism has a harmony focus

 (build relationship first).

6. Individualism values enforcement of legal rights (self-face-saving); collectivism values forbearance and non-interference (mutual- and other-face saving).

7. Individualism seeks formalized agreement (task focus); collectivism offers ceremonial closure (relationship focus).

It’s worth remembering that we all show aspects of individualism and collectivism in differing contexts. Nonetheless, we have each been taught certain values by the primary culture in which we were raised, and these values run deep.

*Many of these ideas are from Ting-Toomey & John Oetzel’s scholarly book: Managing Intercultural Conflict Effectively. Sage Publications: California, 2001.