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Green Wizardries: Presents for the Holidays

I am cooking and baking today.  It is milky with fog outside and so bright, warm and cheerful in the house by my little fire.  I am only eating one meal a day, these days, and it is making me feel a lot healthier and more energetic.  It also makes me keenly interested in that one meal!  

Today, I saw my husband having some beautiful orange-yoked fried eggs for breakfast.  If you want a good orange-yolked egg you need to feed greens to your hens.  Kale is the best if you have lots.

Along with the eggs, I started craving baked beans.  I find beans so comforting and filling and they keep my appetite satiated for a long time because they have so much fiber.  I always cook my own baked beans as it is such an absurdly simple recipe and the resulting beans are tons better than anything you can buy.  I have been making these beans for over twenty years and get great results each time.  

Here is my recipe which is one of my presents to you today.  I think I got this recipe from a book of inexpensive recipes for students.  I have copied it into three cooking notebooks so far as it is such a favourite recipe it always makes it into my new cookbooks when the old one is destroyed through overuse.  

Put two cups of small, dry white beans, four cups of water, 1/3 of a cup of molasses, 1/4 cup brown sugar, 1 medium onion chopped, one tablespoon of Dijon mustard, 1/2 a teaspoon of sea salt and two ounces of bacon cut into strips into a slow cooker.  Stir it up.  Cook it on high for about five hours and stir again.  Cook another two hours until the beans are very tender.   

That is all there is to it.  I gave this recipe to one friend who insisted on soaking the beans in water overnight and the beans were insipid and the sauce very runny.  The beans are cooked from dry so they soak up all the flavour from the other ingredients.  

The way the house smells when these beans are cooking is heavenly.  Another thing that I was doing today was to bake bread.  I always bake eight loaves at a time.  I mix up the bread dough and knead it for about eight minutes. I usually do this one handed as I was taught to just roll the dough around to wake   up the gluten.  

Some people work far too hard, knead the dough very strongly and add too much flour into the mix.  The rule with wheat bread is to add the least amount of flour to get the best bread.  I just sprinkle a little bit of flour on the dough when it begins to get sticky.  

Here is my recipe for four loaves of white bread.  I always double the recipe but for the first few times, stick to the single recipe until you get the hang of it.  5 cups of warm water, 2 tablespoons of sugar, two tablespoons of yeast, excellent organic white flour which I buy at Donna’s Grocery Store at the Guest House on Denman, 2 tablespoons of sea salt and 4 tablespoons of olive oil or melted butter.

Put the warm water, sugar and yeast into a large bowl.  Wait for a few minutes until the yeast foams up. Beat in some flour and the salt and oil.  Keep adding flour a little at a time until you get a stiffish batter.  Pour it out onto a floured counter or table and dust the surface with flour and begin to knead gently.  Keep on kneading and adding flour when the dough gets sticky until you have a firm, elastic dough that pushes back against your hands.  Pinch a triangle into the dough with both your hands.  When the triangle holds, your dough is done and should be placed in an oiled bowl and covered with a clean tea towel and left in a warm place to rise until it doubles in size.  

Once the dough doubles in size, punch it down and cut the dough into four equal pieces.  Oil the counter and put the first lump of dough on it.  Use a rolling pin to roll the dough into a long rectangle.  Roll the dough up and pinch the ends and the seam closed.  Place the dough into a greased metal loaf pan and put it back in the warm place and cover it with a cloth until it is doubles in size.  Do this again with the remaining pieces of dough. Bake at 400 degrees for thirty minutes.  Take a loaf out of its pan and tap the bottom.  The bottom of the bread should be golden and sound hollow when you tap it.  

Between the beans and the bread, your house will smell fantastically cozy!

Shucking Oysters: Loose Words

Laura Galebe

Rawdogging. Yapping. Delulu. Surf boarding terms? Kinky yoga positions? No, these are just a sample of the runners-up for the 2024 Word of the Year title. Dictionary.com, the Cambridge Dictionary, Collins Dictionary and Oxford Dictionary have all recently announced their winners. The criteria: Which word was looked up most? Which word captured what was happening in 2024? And what was interesting about the word from a language point of view?

Cambridge Dictionary’s 2024 Word of the Year is “manifest,” as in we can all channel our dreams. US gymnast Simone Biles manifested her medals at the Paris Olympics and English-Albanian singer Dua Lipa (voted one of the most influential people of 2024 by Time magazine), manifested headlining the five-day Glastonbury music festival, among other venues. 

For those with less lofty ambitions, you can manifest your “influencer” channel and become a part of the trillion-dollar global “wellness” market. On TikTok and Instagram, people you have never heard of, like Toronto “growth for girlies mindset coach” Alicia Tghilian and New York “product pusher” Laura Galebe teach their followers “how to manifest anything you want.” Why live an ordinary life, when you can live an extraordinary one? 

Galebe shared her “lucky girl syndrome” secret to her 42 million plus followers. “I just always expect great things to happen to me, and so, they do.” Manifest your monetary future. “Be delusional,” she gushes. Between getting spray tans, facial filler, hair and lash extensions, and spouting advice on “how to spot insecure friends” Galebe is so walking her talk. People (mainly girls and women it would seem) are crediting the law of entitlement for helping them get raises, find amazing apartments, and cheap flights. 

On a different tone, the Dictionary.com Word of the Year is “demure.” Weekly searches for demure peaked at over 13,000,000 queries in the week of August 19. Why? All because of TikTokker and beauty influencer, Jools Lebron’s “very demure, very mindful” mantra she constantly posts in her videos. “Chase those dreams. Be responsible. Be mindful, be demure and don’t ever let no b*tch dull your shine.” Lebron, in her usual makeup of black, winged eyeliner and fake eyelashes, has amassed more than 2 million followers on TikTok. 

Not to be outdone, Kim Kardashian, Jennifer Lopez, and “Drag Race” host RuPaul have all taken the Lebrontra to the next level to promote their celebrity brands. From a recent campaign for her “sculpting solutions” shape wear, Skims, KK used the phrase: “See how I take my bts pictures…very cutsie, very mindful, very demure.” On Instagram, JLO promoted her new cocktail line Delola, with a video of her elegantly sipping a glass of sparkling “very demure, very mindful” Paloma Rosa, crafted with premium tequila, grapefruit, and elderflower.

The Word of the Year isn’t just about popular usage. Dictionary.com explains: “To select the 2024 Word of the Year, our lexicographers analyzed a large amount of data including newsworthy headlines, trends on social media, search engine results, and more to identify words that made an impact on our conversations, online and in the real world.” 

Collins Dictionary declared “brat” its 2024 Word of the Year (not A brat; just brat). Brat, the title of Scottish-Pakistani, Charli XCX’ album, refers to someone “who is confidently rebellious, unapologetically bold and playfully defiant.” Others characterize brat as those who have “a hedonistic attitude.” The marketing spin-offs are endless. Cologne. Sausages. Surf boards. 

More relatable in my cortex, Oxford Dictionaries’ Word of the Year: “Brain rot.” Oxford defines brain rot as “the supposed deterioration of a person’s mental or intellectual state, especially…as the result of over consumption of material…considered to be trivial or unchallenging.” People use the term to mean brain fog, poor attention span, or gullible to misinformation. That’s pretty much what happens when we’re online, we’re continually lured and baited down endless, mindless rabbit holes.

As Rebecca Jennings said on the CBC Radio show Commotion: “…as long as there’s that incentive for people to keep creating these giant brain rot empires, then it will keep being shoved in our faces…. It’s good for the attention economy, which is the world we’re all living in.” Mel Woods added “that we are all just on our own little dissociation islands trying to process what’s happening out there… I think brain rot fits really well for this year because [it] is that isolated; I’m alone in my bed, scrolling and trying to feel something…because that’s the only thing that’s keeping me [distracted from] all of the horrible things going on right now.” 

Some other words that didn’t make the cut: “Extreme weather” which needs no introduction. “Midwest nice,” describing the characteristic politeness, friendliness and hospitality of people from the Midwest, like Tim Walz. And a word that many Denman Islanders embrace with patriotic passion: “Weird.” It was searched more often than the word “strange” and spiked this year with the US Democrats describing every Republican candidate (in actions and words) as “weird” during the heady days of the 2024 presidential election. 

And speaking of heady, here’s a bumper sticker idea: “Denman Island: Very Demure, Very Mindful.” Now that’s Brat.

Understanding Hamas & Why that Matters (Part 2)

“We’re doing this series not to either advocate for Hamas or to criticize it, but simply to clarify for people what it is, and then people can make up their own minds.” (Rami Khouri, Understanding Hamas @ 39.) One of my early learnings in training to become a mediator was the idea of the ease with which we demonize the ”other side” of a struggle, how we use the Drama Triangle, about which I’ve written previously, to create villains, victims & heroes, how we create fear and distrust of the other side, how we unconsciously fight cognitive dissonance by disregarding the positive aspects of our “enemy” or opponent, and strive for cognitive consonance, by reinforcing ideas that are consistent with our fears and prejudices. How we look for allies who agree with us, build constituencies with them and manage to close ourselves off from even hearing the viewpoint of “the other”, let alone taking it seriously and seeking ways to accommodate the interests of the other.

I was in deep need of more integrative, non-distributive ways of addressing conflict as a practising lawyer, working largely in the realm of family law and estates, highly relational areas where unresolved conflict has the potential to destroy families, at the very least, cause harsh divisions, harm to health, and serious psychological injury to children. Not to mention the money people spend fighting one another. Mediation training was one of the best things I ever undertook, because it gave me some “hows” for helping people listen to and speak respectfully with those with whom they had strong disagreement – the idea of “having tea with your demons”. It gave me a concrete practical path to recommend to my clients, and thankfully took me out of the firing line of litigation and positional advocacy. It is not that hard to extrapolate from interpersonal conflict to warfare.

Warfare always ends at some point, though hurts, wounds, losses and resentments not dealt with post-war, through such avenues as truth & reconciliation processes, can and do leave intergenerational scars. It’s my view that Jewish Israelis never engaged in the healing process necessary after the Holocaust, and we are seeing the results of trauma-damaged psyches taking out vengeance on the Palestinians, who ironically had nothing to do with the Holocaust. And because western governments have long had an agenda of creating and maintaining instability in the Middle East, and great reluctance to confront their own past settler-colonialism, any resistance to Israel’s settler-colonial agenda will be demonized. That means the international community must step up and help find ways to peace.

“Now it’s time to talk about Hamas as a representative of an important, a very important strand in the Palestinian national movement”. (Helena Cobban, ibid. @ 36.) Hamas is a necessary party to finding a resolution to the war on Gaza, and their representatives must be brought to the table along with Fatah (Mahmoud Abbas’ mostly ineffectual party) and perhaps Marwan Barghouthi, a Fatah leader, in Israeli prison since the 2nd Intifada, who consistently tops Palestinian polls as their preferred leader. Hamas has called for the release of Barghouthi. The Palestinians themselves will include Hamas among their representatives. Peace in South Africa could never have been accomplished without the inclusion of the ANF; peace in Ireland would be impossible without the inclusion of the IRA. These are a few examples for us to learn from.

 

So what is Hamas’ main agenda?

There has long been the Idea of 2 strands within Hamas’ thinking – the Islamist (religious) and the Palestinian nationalist. But it’s more nuanced than that. Middle East scholar/professor Dr. Khaled Hroub says: “Hamas is a multi-faceted… organization or movement. This means they are a political party; they are a charitable organization; they are a military faction; all of these combined together….If we want to… go to the simplified… I would say we have been witnessing a steady increase of the nationalist force within Hamas at the expense of the religious tendency within Hamas over the last two, three decades “. (ibid. @ 41)

Why do Palestinians say that you can never eradicate Hamas?

“I think maybe the key word for this is resistance. The Palestinians specifically, and then the Arab audiences and Arab peoples at large: I think the main reason they support Hamas is because of resistance, not because of religion, … nationalism, not because of anything else….This organization is clean-handed in their delivery, in social work, in running the business of government, but I think the core issue is resistance”. (ibid. @ 43) Hroub also points out that at the signing of Oslo in the early 90’s, Fatah, which began as a resistance movement headed by Yasser Arafat, started to decline because they “put resistance to the side”.

Don’t Gazans blame Hamas for the genocide they’re experiencing now?

No. A recent survey (2nd quarter, 2024) shows that most Gazans surveyed place blame for their suffering on Israel and the US, only 8% on Hamas. (Appendix 6, p.199)

(Next week: final Part 3)

Netanyahu Hilariously Claims Israel Doesn’t Seek To Intervene In Syria’s Affairs

DEC 11, 2024
 

Benjamin Netanyahu is hilariously saying that Israel has “no intention of interfering in Syria’s internal affairs.”

Only Israel could invade and occupy large stretches of a country, bomb it 480 times in 48 hours, destroy 80 percent of its military defenses, and then claim that it has no intention of interfering in that country’s internal affairs.

Western regime change cheerleaders are partying about Syria as hard as they can right now because they know soon they’re going to have to turn a blind eye to everything that happens in that country for years to come, just like they did with Libya.

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The new people in charge in Syria have announced that they’re going to be opening up the nation’s markets and integrating into the global economy, which is one of the least surprising developments in this story so far. This is textbook disaster capitalism which we see in every major imperial power grab on a disobedient nation. Syria is now set to be picked apart and cannibalized by the highest bidder. Looks like meat’s back on the menu, boys.

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TikTok apparently really will be getting banned or sold to more empire-loyal ownership soon. All because the US government doesn’t want kids sharing facts about Palestine.

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People who say violence is never the answer are usually ignoring some massive and hugely consequential forms of systemic violence which gave rise to the violence they’re denouncing. It happened with October 7, and it happened with the health insurance CEO.

Yesterday I asked my Twitter followers to complete the following sentence: “Instead of physically attacking the abusive plutocrats who expand their wealth and power by ruining lives and killing people, ordinary citizens should use the other options that are available to them to address such injustices, such as _________.”

The responses were interesting. I got a lot of angry replies from people saying I was encouraging violence by posing this question, which is actually pretty revealing if you think about it. I didn’t actually encourage violence, I just asked people to list what the alternative options to violence were. If these respondents were aware of options besides violence for dealing with the abuses of wealthy oligarchs, it would never have occurred to them to see my question that way. They themselves see no way to resolve these abuses besides violence; they just think people should submit to continued abuse.

Watching all the widespread support for the CEO’s suspected killer Luigi Mangione reminds me of a 2014 essay by venture capitalist Nick Hanauer titled “The Pitchforks Are Coming For Us Plutocrats” warning what he termed his “fellow zillionaires” that “No society can sustain this kind of rising inequality.”

“The problem isn’t that we have inequality,” Hanauer wrote. “The problem is that inequality is at historically high levels and getting worse every day. Our country is rapidly becoming less a capitalist society and more a feudal society. Unless our policies change dramatically, the middle class will disappear, and we will be back to late 18th-century France. Before the revolution.”

“If we don’t do something to fix the glaring inequities in this economy, the pitchforks are going to come for us,” warned Hanauer. “No society can sustain this kind of rising inequality. In fact, there is no example in human history where wealth accumulated like this and the pitchforks didn’t eventually come out. You show me a highly unequal society, and I will show you a police state. Or an uprising. There are no counterexamples. None. It’s not if, it’s when.”

Hanauer wasn’t speaking out of compassion or altruism but basic self-concern. He wasn’t trying to help the poor, he was trying to avoid meeting his maker at the business end of a guillotine blade.

All the rage and bloodlust directed toward these plutocrats does seem to be approaching the boiling point he warned of. I don’t know how this is going to play out, but I will say we’re at a fascinating point in history.

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PRIMORDIAL BLESSING

PRIMORDIAL BLESSING

        by William Thomas

In the fall of my 76th year,

Compelled by stirrings 

Best obeyed 

Without question 

Protestations

Or words

I draw on ankle-boots

Zip my coat snugly

And walk a stiff half-mile 

Through forest audience

To storm-scuffed road’s end

Before the brief light wanes 

  

Atop a well-trodden path

I pause…

Glimpse 

Down through arched black branches – 

Distant sunspangled headland 

The gray welcoming sea 

Sudden as two lifetimes 

Arranging this moment 

To converge 

Through that proscenium frame

A heron glides, left to right 

On silent stiffened wings

“Perfect!” I exclaim

In benediction 

And thanksgiving

So many lessons

If we heed

Their call

The Glory of War 

The Glory of War 

Nothing can damage humanity,

the planet or society more than war.

War using propaganda.

War using terrorism.

War using ideology.

War using poverty.

War using politics.

War using drugs

Bio-warfare, chemical warfare, 

 nuclear war, enemy infiltration, 

 economic collapse and bombs, bombs, bombs.

 To name a few.

So many clever ways to destroy the innocent.

Why do the elites love war?

Is it because

it’s the perfect tool to deflect 

from their massive misdeeds?

 Perhaps it’s because it allows for unbridled theft 

with no repercussions?

Even if they lose; they win.

They demand you donate 

your sons and daughters to their cause.

They don’t give a rat’s ass about your pain.

And yet, we obey. 

And we even pay.

 

     Helen Grond

Skate

 

Blackberry Lane Children’s Centre Dessert Table at the 2024 Christmas Craft Fair

The air has chilled and the leaves are falling which means that the Denman Island Christmas Craft Fair is around the corner!  This year it is being held on December 7th & 8th, and Blackberry Lane, the island’s only licensed childcare facility, is once again hosting the dessert table in the back hall and has been for over 20 years!  We rely on donations to make this event a success and our Centre relies on fundraising to help us continue to operate. This is a great time to bake that special item you love to make but don’t want to eat all of or maybe you want to double your favourite recipe to share. Brownies, cinnamon buns, pies, cakes and gingerbread creatures are always excellent sellers!  We accept donations starting at 9:30 on Saturday morning in the backhall, and throughout the weekend.  Please label dishes if you would like them returned and including an ingredient list is helpful!

  In addition to baked goods, the Blackberry Lane table will also be selling bags and raffle tickets for an amazing raffle we are drawing for in February 2025.  We will have hot coffee and tea to enjoy alongside our delicious treats. Thank you to our wonderful community for your ongoing support of Blackberry Lane Children’s Centre which has been in operation for over 43 years! 

Co-Counselling Training Introduction

Co-Counselling Training Introduction

with delicious vegan soup!

 Wednesday, December the 11th

5:30-7:30 pm in the HUB

Free!
Pre-registration required.

What is Co-counselling?

Co-counselling is a peer-to-peer framework where people take turns holding space for one another to attend to their emotional struggles. Each participant has equal time to receive and give support using the co-counselling method. In this introductory evening, you will learn more about the method and have opportunities to practice co-counselling skills. This evening is an opportunity to see whether you might like to join us for an upcoming 10-week training course beginning in January.  

The training course (20 hours over 10 weeks) is designed for individuals who want to explore and gain skills around emotional literacy. The training provides a safe, supportive environment to learn and practice co-counselling skills. Whether you’re seeking emotional insight for yourself or tools to help others, this hands-on training equips you with the knowledge, techniques, and experience to practice co-counselling effectively. Co-counselling is an accessible, community care model for everyone. This training will deepen participants’ listening skills, mindful communication, and emotional awareness. These skills can be applied in a variety of settings (including, but not limited to, intentional peer-to-peer support sessions).  

Is there a cost?

This introductory session is free of charge. The 20-hour training course (to be offered January 8–March 12, 2025) has a fee attached (TBA). Once you have learned the skills and can practice them effectively, practicing co-counselling with others is free for the rest of your life.

Who is leading the course? 

David Berger https://www.davidaubreyberger.com/ and Miki Fox https://www.mikifox.rocks/ 

Pre-registration is required for December 11th. 

Email Miki at dices.communityprograms@gmail.com or call her at 250.335.2058.

Shucking Oysters: Hohumbug

“It’s the most wonderful time of the year!” Town trips are excruciating. Store after store, carol after carol, after carol. “It’s a holly, jolly…” The same five Christmas songs performed by the same 25 artists. “Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bell Rock…” Holiday songs are the perfect ear worms. Like a record album with a skip, the songs get stuck on repeat, over and over. 

Either you love Christmas music or it makes you want to puncture your eardrums with a fork, as someone eloquently put it. Music psychology researcher Vicky Williamson says that there’s a U-shaped relationship between our reaction to music and the number of times we hear it. At first, we like a song the more often we hear it, but at a certain point, familiarity gives way to contempt, and the repetition is irritating rather than fun. “Feliz Navidad …” 

And what about the poor souls working in retail that have to listen to the incessant Christmas song loop since early November? According to clinical psychologist Linda Blair, these workers have to make a hard, conscious effort to drown out the sound of Christmas music, or they’ll go insane. “If they don’t, it really does stop you from being able to focus on anything else,” Blair said. “You’re simply spending all of your energy trying not to hear what you’re hearing.” Dreaming of a White Christmas is probably lovely the first 20 times, but listening to the same ten songs over and over again all day, every day is cruel. 

On a Reddit thread the “hipsterbandit” wrote: “As a person who has worked in the service industry for a long time now, Christmas music is a form of psychological torture after about an hour of uninterrupted playing. It’s gotten so bad I find myself humming Christmas songs in the summer.”

Slash178 noted: “It’s not so much a genre. It’s a theme, the music of which can be part of any genre, even heavy metal (e.g. Trans Siberian Orchestra). There haven’t been a whole lot of new additions to the playlists at the grocery stores in a long, long time. I’m pretty sick of hearing Mariah Carey and Frank Sinatra as if they are the most recent examples of Christmas music. If they played Ariana Grande’s Santa song or some Trans Siberian Orchestra, or some other modern Christmas tracks then I’d feel better about it.” 

In a poll conducted by the Research Intelligence Group in Montreal, 36% of respondents said they had left a store sooner because they disliked the music. A surprising 75% of us enjoy listening to Christmas music. According to Nielsen’s 2017 Music 360 report, millennials are the biggest holiday music fans (36%), followed by Generation X (31%) and then the baby boomers (25%). Research has shown that Christmas music and scents actually make shoppers happier in a store. The key is not to overload the shoppers with jingle bells of happiness. 

Holidays bring up all sorts of stuff with people. Visiting families can be quite stressful for some. In a poll of 2,000 American holiday travelers, a third (34%) don’t even count traveling home for the holidays as a vacation. In fact, 71% of them say they’d likely need a separate trip afterward to decompress. When visiting their family, 43% said it makes them feel like they’re being parented, as if they were a kid again. (We all know that one.) The poll also found that 86% of travelers prefer to stay somewhere else to relax (like a hotel nearby) after just one day of visiting the family. 

According to clinical psychologist, Jessica Watrous, we put a lot of pressure on ourselves and our loved ones during the holidays to make things “perfect,” and when circumstances fail to meet this unrealistic expectation, it can leave some feeling frustrated and angry. 

There are those who don’t have family, are estranged from their kin or are just too faraway. Or others who don’t celebrate, for one reason or another. As Julia Furlan of NPR wrote “it can be that much more difficult to watch everyone else operating at that eggnog-for-breakfast-inject-candy-canes-into-my-bloodstream level” of holiday mode.

Catherine Winter wrote that that for many people, what was once a beautiful holiday has turned into a consumerist nightmare. There’s an immense amount of pressure to buy, buy, buy to prove to your loved ones that you care enough to spend tons of money on things they’ll never use. We’re “lost in the maelstrom of expectation.” All the joy is sucked out of the celebration. “Everything feels obligatory rather than celebratory; chores instead of delights.” 

As a result, Christmas, as Mr. Keith Porteous would say, can feel hollow and performative, and it leaves you feeling sad rather than joyful. What’s more, if some of us don’t show holiday cheer, then we’re called “Scrooge.” Just give me another eggnog.

Now, how many swans were swimming? Seven? And was it five geese and three French hens dancing? And one Turtle dove in a pear tree or was there also three calling birds?